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Comment on Winning Your Boyfriend Back - 5 Quick Tips by cold hearted

Sat, 16 Aug 2008 07:25:45 +0000

My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a little gril she is one and he wants nothing to do with her. I love him with all my heart God knows that i do but he thinks that i’m a liar and a cheat. I have never cheated on him although i wanted to several times but i couldn’t. It didn’t feel rite to do that to him even when i knew or thought that he was cheating on me. He is a great guy but he is confused about what he wants out of life. He has 2 kids by another girl, his true love but they don’t talk anymore. If she say jump he say how high but on the other hand her want let me go. I told him that he has to let me move on with my life cause he don’t have no clue as to what he want and i can’t keep playing these games with him. I could really use advice pleas help me what should i do?

Comment on Analyzing Your Situation by mira

Fri, 08 Aug 2008 21:56:58 +0000

my boyfriend of 1 year dumped me because he want to marry a rich girl but he says that he still loves and sooner he ll divorce her to marry me PS. he changed his phone number what can i do? i m going crazy

Comment on Mistakes You Should Avoid by Terri

Fri, 25 Jul 2008 04:21:06 +0000

I feel for you all. I understand what everyone is goin through. This is the first time in my life that one of my ex’s wanted me back. I am currently with someone else who makes me happy to an extent. He does treat me very good and is truly genuine in what he tells me. Hes older and has his life together. Before I found out that my ex even wanted me back I didn’t know if I really loved my current b/c as much as he did for me. I was only w/ my ex for 6months, which i know was not a very long time, but we had picked out a ring at the end of last year. Then a huge bomb happened. His daughter was molested by the ex wife’s b/f. He needed a place to keep all three of his kids. So he took the easy way out and went back to his ex g/f who had her own house and the kids knew her. They had only met me once. I caught him at her house late one night and i broke up w/ him. We then got back together a week later. Then after that he ignored my phone calls. I gave up a few days after that to contact him. A few months later we would see each other at racing events every weekend. We both looked at each other all the time. Then 2wks ago he talked to my best friend and told her that he still loved me and dreams about me and still has my number. Well i txted him why he said those things and he said “why say something that aint true” Well we are talking now and i have told my current b/f. I dont lie and dont keep secrets. so my deliema is whether i should stay w/ my current b/f or take my ex back. Im afraid to make a mistake and pick the wrong one. Im almost to the point where i will be single and see who i miss the most. I know someone is goin to get hurt and it will be my decision. I dont want to hurt anyone b/c ive been there many times. I hope this lets you all know that you are not alone in your situations. I wish everyone the best in their decision. Bless you all!!! -terri in tennessee

Comment on Mistakes You Should Avoid by Billy in NJ

Fri, 27 Jun 2008 19:32:54 +0000

Diane,

you need to dump the chump. He’s not and will probally never be ready for commitment.

PS I knew a Diane C in jersey, I hope it’s not you as you deserve better

Comment on 20 Ways to Keep Your Partner and Prevent a Breakup by Zone

Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:45:13 +0000

Good tips for improving a relationship. Thanks.

Comment on Winning Your Boyfriend Back - 5 Quick Tips by jen

Thu, 17 Apr 2008 05:28:49 +0000

Hi,
My name is Jen.I was with my boyfriend for 6 years but i met with my high school sweetheart last month back.He was my first love.Someone special for me.Someone i can never forget.I broke up with my long time boyfriend just for him.He said he loves me and he wants me back.But he is not picking up my calls or sending my mails back.I haven’t talk to him in two weeks.I don’t know what to do.I am so broke now.Please help me guys.I don’t know why i love him so much.I guess my first love really meant for him.But i don’t know what is he thinking right now.I want him to call me and i don’t want to loose him again.

Comment on Mistakes You Should Avoid by Tim

Thu, 17 Apr 2008 05:26:11 +0000

Reading everyone’s comments makes me want to give all of you a big hug. I know it’s tough. Been there, done that. Tried everything possible to get back with my ex: pleaded, begged, bargained, etc. Eventually decided that there was no other option left but to get on with my life and try to forget her. I slipped up a few times. I drove by her house one evening and, sadly, I saw her embracing another man. Made me cry for hours but, you know, it was also helpful to me in a lot of ways, because it forced me into the realization that she had moved on — and so should I. I found someone else who was PERFECT for me a month later, and wouldn’t you know it … my ex found out that I was seeing someone else and wrote me a letter in which she said that she was mourning our relationship, feeling like she had made a mistake, and wanted to get back together. So, here’s the thing … I’ve come to love the new person that I’m seeing. I’m a stronger, more independent, happier person now. But a part of me still loves my ex and misses her friendship. I don’t think it’s fair to abandon my new girlfriend because my ex finally figured out what I knew a year ago. But it’s tough not to be at least a little tempted to relive the past. So, to all of you who hope to get back with our ex’s, have you considered the possibility that there is somebody even better out there for you? Because, odds are, if you broke up with your ex, there was something missing in that relationship — and perhaps the breakup did you a favor, even if it’s not apparent why yet. If I could offer any advice, I’d recommend that you try to move on, if only to preserve your self-esteem and well-being. You deserve to be happy. If someone can’t appreciate what a wonderful person you are, find someone who will. Yes, you will always have memories to look back on … but why not work through the grief process, move forward, and make new memories? I would wish all of you luck, but luck really doesn’t have anything to do with it. We all have the power to make choices about our lives. There is no one else like you. Choose happiness.

Comment on Winning Your Boyfriend Back - 5 Quick Tips by elizabeth

Sat, 12 Apr 2008 14:25:22 +0000

Hi, me and my boyfriend broke up about 1 week ago and its KILLING me!!!He flirts alot with my friend but what can I do???I’ve tried ignoring him,begging him,and i even called him!!!I know that was stupid of me but I just cant get myself to not call hjim or to beg him.I’m only 12 years old but I LOVE HIM im yopung and all but I only care about him.

PLEASE HELP WHAT CAN I DO?????HEEELLLPPP!!!!!!

Comment on Should You Take Your Ex Back? by Temika

Fri, 11 Apr 2008 02:43:49 +0000

I want to know if you just realized how much you loved him since he seems to have moved on or if you really love him? I was with my man for 13 years before some slut came along and they had a baby. It’s been like 3 years since we’ve been apart and I would guess he’s been with her for about 4. Yes, he cheated on me with her but the baby came after the break up. Anyway, during the last couple of years even though I did nothing wrong, I’ve done all I can to get him back because he is my first and only true love but I’m so tired of trying and crying for nothing. He always tells me that he loves me and he doesn’t want to be with her but I don’t believe him because his actions don’t match what he says. I would have waited forever if he showed me things would change but I can’t keep going on his word. I have decided to just stop talking to him altogether because it hurts too bad to keep hoping for him to change. So, you tell me, what should I do?? Get someone else?? Will that work??

Comment on Mistakes You Should Avoid by Temika

Fri, 11 Apr 2008 02:30:09 +0000

My stories too long to tell but I had 13 years with the love of my life now there’s a baby and a slut that won’t go away. He says that he loves me, doesn’t want to be with her, he messed up everything but doesn’t regret his baby. We’ve been broken up since 2005 but I can’t seem to shake him. I feel so bad and I don’t think the pain is ever gonna go away. He has basically forced me into not answering his calls, I’m even trying to get a job and move 10 hours away just to be done with the whole thing. I’m exhausted from the pain of the whole situation. I mean, he calls me just to say “I been thinking about you and I love you” but we never see each other. I don’t know what else to do, I’m just tired and I want to give up. Good luck to everyone, I hope your situations get worked out.