How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
December 10th, 2006
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Try these tips to win back your love:
- Create some space between yourself and your ex. Stop all phone calls, text messages, emails etc.
- After some time, invite your ex boyfriend to talk to you. Express regret things weren’t working out between you.
- Respect his wishes and decisions. If he is seeing someone else, don’t sabotage his relationship in any way.
- Avoid rebound relationships and one-night stands. This won’t make your ex jealous enough to come back
- Be patient.It may take a while for him to realize what he lost.
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1. Erica | December 19th, 2006 at 7:51 pm
OMG…THAT’S SO TRUE BUT TELL ME ONE THiNG…WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN HE’S THE ONE CALLiNG YOU && HE HAS A NEW GiRLFRiEND AND LiKE HE KEEPS TELLiNG YOU THAT HE STiLL LOVE YOU AND HE “KNOWS” THAT HE COULD HAVE YOU BACK iN AN HEARTBEAT…BUT HE JUST WONT GO FOR iT! HE WONT BREAK UP WiTH HER…iTS KiNDA LiKE YOU’RE ON THE REBOUND OR SUMTHiNG…LiKE TODAY WE HUNG OUT DURiNG HALF OF LUNCH ((&& HiS GiRLFRiEND HAS THE SAME LUNCH)) AND HE FLiRTS WiTH ME THE “WHOLE” TiME…i MEAN SHE iS SO PATHETiC THAT HE SPENDS THE “WHOLE” LUNCH PERiOD JUST ABOUT EXCEPT FOR LiKE 5 MiNUTES OF iT…iN THE BATHROOM PRiMPiNG AND TRYiNG TO -MAKE- HERSELF LOOK BETTER!! THEN AFTERWARDS HE NORMALLY WALKS WiTH HER TO THE NEXT CLASS…BUT iNSTEAD…HE “ACTS” LiKE HE LEFT HiS BOOKBAG OVER THERE AT A DiFFERENT TABLE THEN HE COMES DOWN THE HALL THAT MY LOCKER iS ON AND LOOKS FOR ME!! YA NO…iS HE JUST PLAYiNG HEAD GAMES OR WHAT!?!?! LOL…i JUST DONT WANT TO FALL iNTO HiS LiL TRICKS AND TRAPS…BUT GAH HE’S ADORABLE AND i LOVE THE BOi!! WHAT DO i NEED TO DO!!??!!
2. rae | January 30th, 2007 at 6:08 pm
yeah dont fall for it… i was in the same position, if you want just come out and ask him who he wants in front of the gf that way you both know
3. yezz | February 5th, 2007 at 3:29 am
I have to admit that i made a mistake by buggin him alot after he broke up with me saying he needs some space alone.
I bugged HIm alot..And i know that i shouldnt have done that. I know that i cnt turn back time.But do u think if i wait and meet up with him after a few weeks it will be okay?
4. Sienna | February 6th, 2007 at 3:21 am
Okay, me and my ex broke up about a year and 3 months ago.I was with another guy for a year and a half, but it was a very controlling relationship that took a long time for me to get out of. Now, my ex and I are finally talking again.He keeps saying that I have to earn his trust back before anything happens between us, How can I get his trust back? And My feelings for him have grown so much ever since we broke up.Sometimes I feel like he is just saying things like “I want us to work Out” just to make me feel better, and to lead me on. What can I do to get him back in my arms where he belongs?
5. breianne | February 15th, 2007 at 8:21 pm
i love my ex boyfriend ver ymuch i broke up with him for a stupid reason which i should have never done. i broke up with him for another boy and also because his dad wouldnt let him talk to me and now i cry myself to sleep every night and i wish i had him back i havent talked to him in almost two months we broke up like 4 months ago and i just really wish ihad him back
6. Brandi | March 17th, 2007 at 7:18 pm
Me and my boyfriend broke up like 2 weeks ago, and i cant seem to get over him. He told me he likes my friend, but she wont go out with him because she likes her ex and because she don’t want to hurt me. He blames me for her not liking him.I don’t know what to do i just want him back and i ask him all the time and he said that we are not going to go back out. I feel so pathetic, but i miss him so bad. What do i do? How do i win his love back??
7. vivy | April 23rd, 2007 at 2:02 am
Well truth is ladies…..that the only was…and i mean ONLY was y can get a guy back is by ignoring him and leaving him alone. tough as it may be for some of you, that is the only way that he may come back. When u stop calling, seeing, restricting his calls, and completely drop all communication with him, then will he see that you have finally let go. And a guy wants what he cant have. so when he sees that u have finally stoppped trying to get back with him, he will eventually come around. He will start to realize whats he lost, an amazing girl.
8. lost | May 20th, 2007 at 6:19 am
he was dating his colleague since feb and i only found out in april. we been staying togather for 6yrs plus and togather for 7yr 10mths. when i knew there was a 3rd party, i left…on and off we do contact and he did say we be back togather…and he will need time ti break off with her. but being me, i cant wait…so and in between there are lotsa issues…
he is with her now, but i still love him deeply…and i cont to send him smses…which i feel will further pissed him off.
so i guess i have to stop contacting him. but i would like to let him know that i am still waiting for him.
9. hannah | July 1st, 2007 at 1:31 pm
OMG WAT DO YOU DO WEN HE CALLS YA AND YOU JUST WANNA PICK UP THE PHONE AND SPEAK TO HIM HE KEEPS SENDING ME EMAILS AND TEXTES SAYING HE LOVES ME I LOVED HIM SO MUCH BUT HE BROKE MY HEART WHAT DO I DO I JUST WANT HIM BACK ALL HIS FRIENDS SAYS HE CANT GET ANOTHER GIRL LIKE ME AND THAT HE HAS NOT EVEN LOOKED AT ANOTHER GIRL THEY SAY HE WANTS ME BACK BUT I DONT KNOW WETHER I COULD TRUST HIM AGAIN IS HE TRYING TO GET ME BACK OR DOES HE JUST WANT A THING ON THE SIDE CAUSE I ANIT GONNA BE JUST THE LITTLE THING ON THE SIDE I WANNA BE THERE FOR HIM THOUGH THE HARD TIMES LIKE HE WAS WITH ME
10. felicia | July 3rd, 2007 at 3:50 pm
me and my boyfriend broke we have 3 kids together. we been to gether for 6 years .he started seen his ex wife i still love him so how so i get him back what should i do. plus i live out of state.should i not talk to him
11. amber | July 17th, 2007 at 7:59 am
me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago after being together for 4 1/2 years, he said that he could not deal with my attitude anymore. I love this man with all my heart and I never intended on running him away. I have currently moved out the house and living on my own but everyday we still talk on the phone, occasionally we still hook up but I recently caught him with another girl, who he says is a friend. I believe him but I just want to know how I should get him back into my life
12. Rachel | July 24th, 2007 at 5:10 pm
I LOVE MAH BOYFRiEND x WEV BN GO FUR NEARLY AH YEER KNOW BT HE HAS PROBLEMS WiTH TALKiNG ABOUT THiNGS SO HE TENDS TO LASH OHT AND WEN i CAME FROM A HOLiDAY HE HAD BN ANGRY AT ME AND HE CHEATED OHN x BT HE SAYS HES SORRY ND EVEN CAME TO MY HOUSE AND APOLiGISED TO MY PARENTS x WER TRYiN TO WORK THRO THiNGS BT i DONT KNOW iF iM MAKiNG THi RYT CHOiCE ?? BT WE DO RL;Y LOVE EACH OTHER AN WEV BN THRO ALOT OF UPS AND DOWNS
13. Zazou | July 31st, 2007 at 8:27 am
Hello ! he broke up with me for many problems happened with us ! he wanted me to change ! to be mature ! and did his best ! we were together for 4 years ! and it’s been 3 months we broke up ! i did my best to show him that i am changing and i love him and ects…….. one he sent my friend an email saying : (i have to be far for a while in order to calm down, because his presence is bothering me and he dosen’t know how to act .And especially his sms are stressing me more and more and making me very angry at him again.I told him a thousand times that i’ll never forget him even if i go out with someone.But i need to TRY to remove this hurt from my life and be cool again b4 trying to talk to him again.Anyway he has to understandthat both need a lot of time before even thinking of talking Anyway i i’ll try to call him in a couple of months (maybe more,maybe less,7asab how i feel) but he has to remove the idea that we might come back together soon from his head.I’m going to talk to him in a couple of months but that doesn’t mean we’re coming back together.It all depends on my feelings and how he’s progressing in his life and behavior.I don’t think we’ll come back together before one year minimum.Aslan he shouldn’t think abt that now.He should think abt being normal and letting me talk to him normally before even dreaming abt a relation.That’s all for now.I hope he might understand one day but certainly not now,whatever happens in both our lives.Take care for now and i hope he’ll know how to behave not to bother me and make me hate him again.A +.Bye.) so 2 months passed i called him and i was crying ! i showed him a lot of improvement ! like he always wanted me to live alone to grow up ! so i did it ! i have my own apparetment and i am 23 years old he is 25 years old but he lives with his familly ! Anyway i asked him many times to visit me , he didn’t came after 2 weeks he camed ! i showed him the email of my friend ! and i asked is it still valid he replied what the hell u are seeing now i am not in ur home now ? so of course yes ! Anyway i have no i dea what is going to happen ! he told me lately don’t think of the past and either in the future ! and try to Move on Please !
do u think i still get him back ? he is been dating the other one since 2 months !!! what shall i do ?
14. Ashley | July 31st, 2007 at 4:45 pm
i just broke up wit my boyfriend yesterday. im so heart broken. we had dated for 2 plus years. i really thought he was the one for me. how am i supposed to get him bak>?
15. tarra | August 1st, 2007 at 7:50 pm
i have bben goin out with my bf for 2 yrs this august but we broke up due to him sayin about my job. i want him back but not sure if he does too. we see each other mb 2 times a week or so nd tlk on comp and he txt me randomly sumtimes too. he still asks me to come over when he wants sumthing from me too. the thing is he has pictures of me on his myspace still sayin me and my love i dnt know wat this emnas and when we are together we have the best time l and laugh at random things like we had in our relationship. idk wat to thnk if he is holding on until i get my life striaghtend out with a good job or wat is this rlly over? i have foud him nd hes is the best thing to happen to me ever and we had tlkd about marraige at one point. and i dont wanna loose him hes too speciall and i wanna get back with him idk wat to do
16. lara | August 3rd, 2007 at 1:42 am
hey, uhm, im 15 years old and my boyfriend and i just broke up today. we’ve been dating for what would have been tommorow 9 months. we’ve planned our life out and we’ve been thru tough times (ppl in the way, misunderstandings..) he seems to blame me for everything but i still love him although he yelled at me for putting his name in my msn..i want him back..but is it possible? he said a while ago( a month or so) that he wud 100% ask me out again..but is it still possible? shud i start looking at other boys?
17. neera | August 5th, 2007 at 3:08 am
ive been goin out with my boyfriend for almost 4 months which wud hav been dis wednesday we broke up last friday. i was always the one who had da leash and he followed but then he started getting all quiet about last week and i new something was up on friday i askd him if he wantd to break up and he said yes. da next 4 days i sat home crying and lost 4 pounds because i became nauseas if i ate he always askd my friend if i was eating and if i was alright da first 3 days i started telling him how much i loved him but now i stopped i just occasionaly say hi and thats bout it from that time 5 guys already asked me out and my friend told my ex about it and he gets mad and says that guys are just using me because they think ill go to them. he knows that im not going out with them because i still feel for my ex alot. he still asks my friends if im doing alright and stuff im just wondering is their a possibilty that he still likes me?
18. gizmo | August 15th, 2007 at 1:09 pm
My bf dumped me a month ago. Out of the blue because I am not the one for him! Since when did that become a reason to break up with someone? I was so upset and I kept calling him because I wanted an explanation because to me it didn’t make sense. He just cut me off totally. So now I’m not crying anymore. I’m not over him either, I’m just enjoying being single. I pamper myself and spend time with my friends. I still think about him alot, but I know I didn’t do anything wrong, so it’s his loss. I’m a beautiful young girl with my whole life ahead of me and he is certainly not the only fish in the sea : )
19. britney | August 31st, 2007 at 8:11 pm
me and my boy friend broke up yesterday because he was facing some problems with his child mother and she was over at his house but i didnt kow and i went there i really love him i use to say i love my first boyfriend but my love for ex is much more unconditional than my first and i want to know how to get him to come back to me
20. Pricilla | September 11th, 2007 at 5:56 am
My bf and i broke up 3 months ago and this september 8 would of been a year we were going out for 9 months and it sucks because i know he still loves me as much as i love him but he trys to play it out and up to this point my feelings have grown stronger more than before and it sucks that we can’t be together because of his attitude. Hes the only guy i have ever felt this way man i wish i can be with him again. I see him at school everyday trying to act like im over him when deep inside it hurts me so much
21. Cindy | September 12th, 2007 at 10:01 pm
um ok, well I’m 15 and me and my boyfriend broke up about maybe a year ago? about 3 months after we broke up he met this one girl who he is curently been seeing for what it seems like forever. I can’t stop thinking about him, I miss him, and I still love him. I have asked so many people about what to do and everything they say to me doesn’t make sense, maybe because they never had this happen to them? I just want to know if it’s possible to get him back.. or if I really do have to move on?
pleaseeeee, give me some answers
22. Megan | September 15th, 2007 at 2:18 am
I just broke up ,at first i broke dwn crying then i thought im going make him jealous and im going to flirt with his best friend!
23. Icy | September 22nd, 2007 at 8:55 pm
my boyfriend and I broke up about two months ago, and he has a new girlfriend now. me and dat same gurl had an argument about him before they went back out and now he’s cheating on her wid me, so im about to let her know that he’s cheating on her with me and dats dat. but as much as i love him there is no way that i will go back to him bcKuz i know that he will hurt me the same way, but i am goin to give him another chance sumtim in da future when he gains bacK my trust
24. jackie | October 15th, 2007 at 6:04 pm
hi. my name is jackie. i’m 21 years old. me and my boyfriend broke up last week. it was really bad. he is in the navy and he came home for R&R and apparently had a run in with his ex while he was home. well i found out that they were supposedly back together and we broke up because he chose her and that he loves me but supposedly loves her more… i want to win him back tho. how would i do that? i mean he threw away a year relationship and years of friendship for her. do you think that its because he’s confused or something? i dont know. i just really cant get over him and i want him back more than anything right now.
25. loly | October 18th, 2007 at 4:17 pm
my exboyfriend is scared to tell me he wants me back, he is kind of a shy guy and does not know how to start that conversation that he wants me back but i can see it by the way he behaves when im arround and he even talks more to his friends about me as his future wife. i also want him back but im scared he might turn me down. we visit and feel comfortable about each other now & when he doesnt see me over a weekend he wil send text n say few words like, jst wanted to say gudnight. pls help me
26. GINA | November 10th, 2007 at 8:38 pm
WELL MY EX BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME ONCE WITH THIS GIRL HE WENT OUT WITH AFTER ME.THEN THEY BROKE UP AND STARTED TALKING TO ME AGAIN..I DONT KNOW WHAT TO BECAUSE I LIKE HIM A LOT BUT I DONT WANA GET HURT. ONE TIME WE HANG OUT AND HE KEEPS TELLING HOW HE LOVES ME AND I SAW A HICKEY ON HIS NECK!!!OMG WHAT SHOULD I DO..help!!
27. brittany | December 21st, 2007 at 11:11 pm
heyy i broke up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago and i really miss him and want him back. he has caused so much drama in my life ever since i broke up with him. this girl that used to be my friend likes him now too and i dont like her even though i know that i should cuz she hasnt done anything wrong. i have lost some friends who were close to me because of our break up and now i dont know what to do. i am beginning to think that he still likes me but is jsut afraid to admit it cuz hes afraid to get hurt again so i dont exaclty know where to go from here. i am thinking that i need to move on because i shouldnt waste anymore time on him but i know that i want him back even though hes the cause of so much drama in my life. it really isnt his fault-the drama and all. its all my fault but hes like the reason ive been acting all weird and all mixed feelings and such so if u have any advice please help me because i need advice and quick. i dont wanna be known as the needy girl so should i just act like ive stopped caring about him and wait to see what happens or should i really stop caring?!
28. ... | December 26th, 2007 at 2:28 am
well me and my ex split up twice, the first time we were NASTy to each other and he came beggin back the next day, i waited a few days and we were together again, the second time id fallen in love with him, so i told him how much i liked him after he dumped me and we never got back! dont beg, ignore them if they like you enough they ll come back
29. ... | December 26th, 2007 at 2:30 am
& i know how yu feel cos similar thing happened to me, i cant do anythin now coz i got with two of his mates after to get back, but TELL HIM! n if he rejects yu move on
30. Liz | January 7th, 2008 at 6:40 am
my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago and it hurts so bad…. everything was fine and then he just called out of the blue and told me that he got back together with his baby mamma………I Love this man so much he is my everything!!! He claim to wana be there for his daughter and I understand that but I would never make him choose between me or his daughter….. he got back with this girl so that he can be in his daughters life….. I talk to him and he said that he love me and wana be with me but because I live two hours away he dont wana be with me… I have to know what I should do I want my baby back……. he text me when he has something wrong or he needs hel and Im there of him… I just want him to relise that he can be with me and still be in his daughter life to … how do i do that how do I get the love of my life back??
31. candy | January 12th, 2008 at 4:51 am
i like broke up wit my boyfriend a couple of months and i still have
feelings for him and he told his cousin that he still likes me i try to impress him and it works but im trying not to fall in it but im with a more better guy that has a great heart but my ex is good looking and has a great heart 2!!!
32. bobbi | March 11th, 2008 at 11:24 pm
omg i have this ex boy friend that is so annoying and he is only asking other grls out to get me jelouse so i jope this works [:
33. renea | March 25th, 2008 at 1:02 am
Ok, so I am 17 years old and about 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. Well, technically he broke up with me. We had gone out before, for about 7 months but we broke up. We started seeing each other again several months later. Two nights before Christmas I haden’t talked to him. He always called me, and so I got worried when he didn’t. So I decided to check up on him because he was going to come to my family Christmas dinner with me. He lied to me and said that he wanted to spend time with his mother, then said he was sick, and just came up with alot of excuses. I asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said he didn’t care. So I told he didn’t have to care anymore b/c we were through. Later I called him back and told him I really didn’t want to break up, but he said he really didn’t want a girlfriend right now. Now it’s been about 2 months since our breakup, and he just looks at me, but never says a word to me. I still cry when I think about him, and it’s usually when I see my friends with their boyfriends. I don’t really want him back b/c I know I’ll get hurt again, but I still want us to be friends. But talking to him hurts me so badly. What should I do?
34. Nicolle | March 29th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
Ok, well my boyfriend cheated on me, and he told me and we got in a big argument, and i was cryin and everything he said he was sorry a lot, but he still said that we needed to take a break because we argued to much, i miss him a lot, should i want him back? and if so how do i get him back? and plus hes goin and gettin high again and stuff now and he says it in front of me and we still talk on the phone and stuff every now and then, but hes also moving soon and i miss him too much for that well should i miss him?
35. Angi | April 10th, 2008 at 12:51 pm
I broke up with my fiance two months ago. We had been together for 7 years and engaged for 3 of them. We were due to move in together and had been saving up a deposit for a home. Then he said he thought the amount of money we would have spending on a house was to much even though I had done the sums and then he said that he did not want children even though he did at the beginning of our relationship and when we got engaged. I have probably had a lucky escape as this guy is 39 in a couple of months time and still lives with his mum and I don’t think he wante any responsibility in his life just new cars and to do what he wanted when he wanted, which is what I let him do anyway. Sometimes ignoring them can work, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” and all that but sometimes “Out of sight, out of mind” applies too.
Men want what they can’t have and if you look like you are getting on with your life without him then he may want you back but is it for the right reasons, that he loves and misses you not just because you have not phoned or texted him. Personally, I would want to keep all my self respect and dignity and not seem desperate and if he wants you back then you should also make it on your terms.
It does hurt but it gets a bit better everyday and will eventually and there are plenty of men out there who will want you for who you are without changing.
36. Jenniie | November 15th, 2008 at 5:34 am
me and my boyfriend broke up a little over a week ago,
i did things ishldnt hve done, i begged him not to leave, i ent to his house and begged again and cried over the fone and called him continously, we’ve been together for about a year and 2 months, i want him back so badly my life feels so empty without him, he tells me tha hes completely over me.. i think i should try not talking to him at all now, but we planned to meet next week.. im not sure if i should go out or not. i love him so much, i just want him back in my life.
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