Winning Your Boyfriend Back - 5 Quick Tips
March 12th, 2007
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- Create some space between yourself and your ex boyfriend.
- Don’t call him every day - you’ll make yourself look like a stalker.
- Ask if he’d like to do something non-committal, like have a drink with you and friends.
- Flirt a little bit, not too much, or he will think you are weird.
- Don’t try too hard to make him like you. You simply cannot make someone like you.
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1. mary | May 11th, 2007 at 4:46 am
hi, I would like you opinion regarding to my situation…Me and my ex just broke 2 months ago…We have a baby together and he is only 6 months old..Reasons we broke up is he is very irresponsible…He takes his friends priority before his son…I am hurt the he neglect us…He left us and he start dating someone new…Please help me to find a way to heal myself and to be able to go Through. I just wanted him to value us and make him realized what he’s done..
2. HANNAH | July 1st, 2007 at 1:43 pm
well mary i would of done the same thing he should of put his family first rather than his mates do you love him because if you do just go up to him and say i want you back and i only wanted you to put us first insteed of your mates he should understand you do come first if he dont like what you say then just leave him he we soon realise what he has losted and he will realise why he losted you if that dont work then it is showed he rather have mates then a girlfriend and son he is still a child if he dont come home to his family
3. Lindsey | July 20th, 2007 at 5:37 am
My boyfriend and I just broke up 2 days ago and I cant seem to get over it. We were high school sweethearts and he broke up with me when he left for college,he is a year older than me, but he would still call me and want me to come over every now and then. It took us 3 years to get back together and we both have loved someone within those 3 years. The second time around we dated for a year and an half and I have some jealousy issues that were regarding from the past that I know I need to get rid of but I just cant..He says he needs time to think and that he loves me but he just want to think over some things. We have talked about living together and I just dont know if he is scared to commit or what, thats what im needing to know..He is not a person to show his feelings, he keeps everything bottle in except for him its just me and him..I need some GOOD advice on what I should do…
4. Jen | August 15th, 2007 at 2:53 pm
me and my boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago, he was the love of my life and we were together 2 years. He just suddenly turned round and said he wanted to break up and get some space but he still loved me and thought the world about me, it has been the hardest few weeks and my whole body seems empty, we still speak everyday which i dont know if thats a good or a bad thing? and we have vowed we will stay best friends something we were before but im scared i will always want more and i hate the thought of him meeting a new love and her taking my place.
We have both said we could have a future together but need to give it a while to see if we care that much about each other- Fingers crossedx
5. sarah | August 20th, 2007 at 8:51 pm
My name is Sarah I was with my ex for 5 years and we have a 1 year old son together. We have been through alot during those years, no communication, no honesty, or loyalty. He recently told me he was unhappy and I feel he is seeing or at least interested in someone else. I have not been perfect, but honest and I really love him, he does not know what he wants though he seems so scared of marriage and the whole family idea. You know that does not change you but you should enjoy the new endeavors you are given. I need some help trying to make him realize what he has and calls me in the middle of the night so I am confused to HELP!!!!
6. Amy | August 28th, 2007 at 4:51 am
6months we dated and never had any trouble intell he told me he was going to go away in the summer and make it worse i was losing him but not seeing him in school at all either, and he and i both started feeling bad about being together ,but i called him trying to settle and we ended up breaking up cause i play alot of sports and go threw stress with tennis, band, and track and alots of school work and me and my mom fight alot and he gets annoyed but he wants me to tell him everything ,but he gets mad and we broke up over that stupid reasion and its been 2 days without sleep and i miss him bad i feel like i hit a drepsent hit where i come home and sit on the coach crying so at night i just cant get him off my mind and im the kind of girl have had alot of bfs for being 16 my age but i was his first gf and first for everything even sex and its hard for me to belive i found him but i lost him and ive never been so dreprest over a guy in my life as i was now, i just need help getting him back and asking god to help me cause getting up every morning at 5am for band and then going to games or tennis practice is not helping me i feel sick, so plz help me.
7. Icy | September 22nd, 2007 at 9:02 pm
just ignore him and do sum stuff to help yourself. then start acting like a friend then he will feel closer to you
8. kate | September 25th, 2007 at 5:31 pm
well me and ma ex have been going together off and on for three months and we broke up in july i sudden just find out that i am madly in love with him but he does not love me that way we are still friends infact we were friends for 3 years b4 we got together and even thought were not together we still talk to each other everyday he is the last person i talk to b4 i go to bed and b4 i hang up i always tell him i love him cuz i do i love him so much its killing me and it hurts even more when he flirts or talks to other girls so how do i win him back i do i get him to want me agin?
9. yessenia | November 30th, 2007 at 8:52 am
i was with my boyfriend for year and a half. We used to argue a lot because he always hang out with his lesbian friend and he also has too many female friends. we didnt live together, but he forced me to do his laundry everyweek if i didnt do it he used to tell me that it was my job or he was going to find a nice girl. He didnt do nothing for me. We broke up because i told his lesbian friend to leave him alone. He called me that night. he was mad and dumped me. He said im sorry dude i have friends, i never want to talk to you, i dont love you, im not in love with, we will never gonna back together again, dont send me messages, dont call me and never want to see you again. I was so stupid begging him and he finally said i dont want you to call me im meeting somebody she is better than you, she is nice. I never want to see you again, i cant stand you, you are crazy, if you call me or come to my house ill call the police.
I havent talk to him in a month and i changed my number. He broke up with me on the phone.
I think he always treated me bad because im a spanish woman. Sometimes i wish i was with him, but at the same time i dont think it would work out. Should i try to get him back?
10. inez | December 10th, 2007 at 3:15 am
my boyfriend broke up with me and i really want him back how do i get him back if i don’t ever see him
11. Jamie | December 29th, 2007 at 11:54 pm
hi
Well I recently just started talking to my ex again. and we talked for about 2 weeks…..and so we were going to hang out one day but he totally lead me on about it and cut me down….Then he started to be so mean to me when earlier he was so nice and almost lovable again. i asked why he was so angry and he says “i just dont like to talk to people that i dont like” and i just dont understand. he was talking to me for 2 wks and then he goes and says that….i really want to start to talk to him again what we had was so special but i dont want him to run away completly. what should i do? Make another move? or leave it alone?
Help
P.s. And we don’t go to the same schoool but live 10 min. from each other.
12. Daryn | January 27th, 2008 at 8:54 pm
well my boyfriend of only 2 months (i’m 14) broke up for practiclly no reason around a week ago. i ant to get over him but i dont think i can. so i really now want to win him back but he ‘wants to be single’ and i mean this sounds horribly mean but i really dont think he will find a girlfriend until 10th grade at LEAST. when we broke up he said that we were ‘friends with love’ but he doesnt talk to me anymore at all. he wont even look at me so im starting to wonder why he didnt want to completely break up. he is just really confusing.
13. blue eyes | February 12th, 2008 at 10:13 pm
Hi my boyfriend and I are still together but his ex girfriend is back and she is not leaving him alone… how i m going to make my boyfriend choose me ? if i dont text him or talk to him i really miss him. I can’t imagine life without him. I am 14 and he s 18. He s honest with me.. he tell me everything…i m going to try to make sex with him for the very first time(from my side) just i m trying to make him choose me. I love him with all my heart. He is the first damn thing in my life. I can’t let him go….. i want hime to choose me… pls help
14. Lianne | February 13th, 2008 at 2:47 pm
Hi, my boyfriend and I still together, but his ex girfriend is back and she not leaving him alone…. i want him to love me like before.. i want him to choose me .. what should i do? i dont stay when i dont talk to him coz i miss him so much.. and i call him again… i want him to hoose me please help… for me is really mportant. i m 14 and he s 18… i m going to do sex with hime as well to show him how much i love him i m going to give him my virginity…. pls ppl help i dont want to loose him and i want to choose me
15. anna | February 26th, 2008 at 6:04 pm
hi, my boyfriend and i just broke up and i think i might be pregnant. i fell inlove with him and hes a daddys boy so hes dad told him to get me pregnant and leave me!we have been broken up 4 about 3 months and i really miss him how could i get him back, advice people!!!………….
16. deedee | March 16th, 2008 at 1:57 am
me and my ex boyfiend broke up about two weeks ago i need help about to get him back help me!!!!!!!! please
17. mariz | March 24th, 2008 at 9:36 am
hi..i just want to ask for some advice. i just met with my old boyfriend after 17 years of both getting married. we just smiled with each other and nothing else but then i felt, i’m still in love with him. he was my bf before i got married, i just made him jealous to prove him that he is not the only man on earth because he was a kinda womanizer. but my husband didn’t waste any single chance to lose me. now that i have seen my old bf, i realized i still love him and since then, i became sleepless and can’t get him out of my mind now. please help me…
18. Raquel | March 25th, 2008 at 7:34 pm
ok i have a situation me n this guy was talking for 9 months an nothing was coming out of the “so called relationship” which i call just casual friends but anyways i decided to break it off wit him about 2 weeks ago an i told him to leave me alone and do not talk to me anymore an i remain cofident and strong but i still care for him if he decides to show me a that he wants something serious what should i do about the situation should i continue to be cofident and strong or go back
19. Alex | March 25th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
My ex and i were dating for about 2 months now, he won me over afer years of pursuit and i finally gave in. I fell in love with him and just recently he left me over a slight misunderstanding. I’m madly in love with him and i want him back, the situation, although untrue there is no way i can make him believe me because he has been hurt before so its hard for him to believe me. Please help me regain his trust.
20. Jerica | April 3rd, 2008 at 6:31 am
so me and my ex just broke up about two weeks. our relationship started out great. we have had some problems but we always got throu them. this isnt the first time we broke up, we broke up before because i hooked upwith this kid, and me and him werent exclusive then but he was still so hurt, then he hooked upwith someone, but then we got back together and things were fine. i knew i was kinda distant with him, we broke up but we got back after talking. we fought alot because he didnt trust me because of when i hooked up with someone else. and i always tried to prove to him i would never do that again because i hated who i was for that. so we broke up again over fighting, but we would get back together.
so we recently broke up ovr him not being able to trst me but i have never ever repeated the mistake i made that day. so i have the made the mistake of calling, crying, begging, suicide threats, i know i know i shouldnt, but acting like i dont care makes things worse i think. when i acted like i didnt care the first few days he just did the same thing
now our prom is coming up and he thought i had a date and he went and ask a friend of mine so now i am so upset i cry and cry over it and he know i do. and she knows im upset and shes feels bad but i realy havent seen her trying to make an effort. idk what to do about this stuff, and we have another dance coming up and the thought of seeing him dance and hook up with other girls, kills me.
what do i doooo? helppp?
21. elizabeth | April 12th, 2008 at 3:25 pm
Hi, me and my boyfriend broke up about 1 week ago and its KILLING me!!!He flirts alot with my friend but what can I do???I’ve tried ignoring him,begging him,and i even called him!!!I know that was stupid of me but I just cant get myself to not call hjim or to beg him.I’m only 12 years old but I LOVE HIM im yopung and all but I only care about him.
PLEASE HELP WHAT CAN I DO?????HEEELLLPPP!!!!!!
22. jen | April 17th, 2008 at 6:28 am
Hi,
My name is Jen.I was with my boyfriend for 6 years but i met with my high school sweetheart last month back.He was my first love.Someone special for me.Someone i can never forget.I broke up with my long time boyfriend just for him.He said he loves me and he wants me back.But he is not picking up my calls or sending my mails back.I haven’t talk to him in two weeks.I don’t know what to do.I am so broke now.Please help me guys.I don’t know why i love him so much.I guess my first love really meant for him.But i don’t know what is he thinking right now.I want him to call me and i don’t want to loose him again.
23. cold hearted | August 16th, 2008 at 8:25 am
My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a little gril she is one and he wants nothing to do with her. I love him with all my heart God knows that i do but he thinks that i’m a liar and a cheat. I have never cheated on him although i wanted to several times but i couldn’t. It didn’t feel rite to do that to him even when i knew or thought that he was cheating on me. He is a great guy but he is confused about what he wants out of life. He has 2 kids by another girl, his true love but they don’t talk anymore. If she say jump he say how high but on the other hand her want let me go. I told him that he has to let me move on with my life cause he don’t have no clue as to what he want and i can’t keep playing these games with him. I could really use advice pleas help me what should i do?
24. jadelll | November 10th, 2008 at 4:28 pm
so i broke up with my ex about three years ago and i was madly in love with him we had a huge fight and he left and never came back we were toghether for 2 and a hakf years. Now iam with a new boyfriend and we have a 1 year old but i find myself thinking and dreaming about him EVERYDAY and i dont know what to do iam so confussed i love my ex still so much i dont know i should follow my heart and try to get him back or follow my head and stay with my current boyfriend????
25. brittney soalice | November 12th, 2008 at 7:41 am
so my ex broke up with me a year ago and he was my first love i dont know what to do because i dont think he loved me back but i want him back and i dont know how to get him back i talk to him every once in a while but we never talk about us every time i try he avoids the questions how do i get the one i love back????
ps. the twisted part is he just started talking to a girl and i want him to be happy but im not happy with out him
26. Rain | November 14th, 2008 at 6:44 pm
Hi,
My guy broke up with me 4months before and i tried my best level to bring him back by making myself weired in front of him like calling him, crying on phone,begging him etc, but no use. Now he say that he is in a relation and it hurts me like hell. although he sumtimes calls me and ask about me but then i make false stories and lie to him that even i have new guy in my life,which makes him so irritated. but a few days back i called him up and asked whether is ready to come back he said that he is confused and cant come back., although he say that he doesnt love that other lady, i have a doubt that if he is in relation with any1 then why do he calls me and say about him that he had sex with that gal & the day after he calls me again & say that he was lieing and the matter of the fact is that he told me not to be physical with any guy because he is selfish he confronted to me & he cant bear it. I cant live without him please help me cant survive like this!!! it hurts terribily. why he is doing this to me cant he come back please help me help!!!
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